Interview: Taylor DiVico, author of Existing the Moments
Taylor DiVico is the author of Existing the Moments, an inspirational story about the ups and downs of life. You can find out more about Taylor by visiting her profile on AllTheseBooks.com.
BookHuntersBlog.com: Did you study the craft of writing or dive right into it?
I dove right into it at a young age and by the time I got to college. Majoring in Philosophy, a certain affinity for substantial, mind-enhancing writing grew. A style was born at that point, and I’ve been crafting it ever since!
Tell us about your life experiences.
There are quite a few! Mainly, music has always guided me. I began classical training as a violinist at age five, and from that point on, became classically trained in piano, later learning guitar. As a child, I attended music institutions away from home such as, Hartwick College, and Crane School of Music. There was lots of independence at a young age which most prepared me to embrace life and to seek adventure. A love for traveling the globe and moving came next, so many European and cross-country backpacking trips, Phish tours, and the list goes on…all good material for a writer. It’s been a full life!
What is the meaning of life?
Well, I have to assume the meaning of life is different for everyone. For me, it’s humility and with that, constant evolution as a person bringing forth the ability to gain wisdom through many experiences and people who grace my presence along the way.
What really matters in life?
All things intangible… happiness, love, goodness.
Are you religious or spiritual?
I seek consult in philosophy, and through readings of the ancients and their successors, open-mindedness has been my best companion in this life. Spirituality envelops me without needing to be defined. It’s just there.
How can one get through rough times that are seemingly unconquerable?
Nothing is unconquerable, but the dissipation of hope. Get through rough times by remembering the good times and tell yourself there will be more. Depend on your friends and family and realize that it’s okay to be vulnerable because in the end, we all are. Pick yourself back up and be greater than ever!
Do you do a lot of people watching?
Yes! I love watching the way people interact with each other and finding commonalities in their reactions. I always imagine a sort of background story.
What do you think of the current state of our society? Everything seems to be style over substance and materialistic possessions are more important than living a fulfilled life.
I think it’s repulsive, but underneath that, as a society, it speaks volumes of a certain sadness and detachment from what really matters. It just sends a skewed, cynical message to people, and moreover, to children. Fulfillment is so much deeper and so I think there are so many unfulfilled people in the world, masking their problems and indulging in a therapy that is no more real as it is helpful. In the end, it’s just a pair of shoes, and they’re probably wicked uncomfortable.
How do you know when you’ve found true love? Is there even such a thing?
There is such a thing as true love and it is a feeling of such enormity that trying to contain it with the right words seems suffocating to its very essence. You know you’ve found it when you find yourself smiling at nothing and when you begin to see the beauty in every faction of your surroundings.
How do you choose which real-life experience to draw inspiration from?
I don’t think I deliberately choose, but rather am more subliminally affected by so many different aspects of life. Experiences transfer through my writing. I am most inspired by the vastness of life and with that, the fragility of it. Also, the depth of human emotion is beyond fathomable, so I rely on the construction of deep, thought-provoking characters.
What do you think about the future of books with all the new technology coming out (like Kindle and foldable screens)?
I’m all for advancements, especially when it may better accommodate someone’s lifestyle or pace. I still personally attest to the notion that there’s nothing like a good traditional book to kick back with on the beach or on the couch. There’s something about manually turning the pages and unfolding a character’s destiny that can’t be replicated electronically. But that’s just me.
How difficult was the publishing process for you?
It was difficult, lots of waiting, rejections of one query after another, followed by uncertainty, discouragement, and anger at certain points. I went through all the phases and when I realized I was second guessing myself based on other people rejecting me, most of whom hadn’t even read my manuscript yet, I knew my vision had been tainted. I took matters into my own hands and realized that I had to effect my own change. I knew I had a wonderful story to tell and I didn’t want to wait to be “found” so I went with a subsidy publisher and worked two jobs and freelanced so I could pay the expenses of publishing my book. It was an exhausting but fruitful experience and I learned a lot about myself and my drive. Like most trials in life, it made me a stronger person and for that, I’m thankful.
How much of your own promotion do you do?
I do quite a bit of my own promotion. At a time I thought I wasn’t business-savvy enough to promote myself, but I’ve learned so much and I’m trying to put it all to use.
Do you have any tips for aspiring authors?
My best advice would be to just write it down. I meet many people who say they have a great idea for a book and they would really like to write one but they don’t know where to even begin. Simple solution…go to your computer and start typing. See where that first page takes you and don’t be scared of letting your mind create an alternate truth that will someday be your novel.
What are your future plans?
I plan to publish a book of poetry next. After that, my second novel, The Diseased, will be published. I’m currently working on two other fictions, one which is half-way finished and the other in which I only have the first couple chapters written. I think I need to do some more traveling very soon just to keep the inspiration flowing and the view on life fresh. Italy sounds nice. A jump from the cliffs of Capri does the soul some good.
How do you juggle writing with the rest of your life?
With two hands, high-energy, and lots of coffee.
Do you have any methods or rituals to your writing?
Oddly, cleaning my house before I write is a ritual that I need to do. It clears my mind and prepares me to sit down and not be interrupted by the “Oh, I forgot to…” and the “I need to…” My attention span is limited because I’m always thinking of what’s next, so I really have to have everything else done and in place before I can even consider writing something decent. Then, I just take a deep breath and get to it.
How do you find inspiration?
I’m surrounded by it and I try to take notice daily. Sometimes I just see something and I know it is embedded in my mind forever and will become a metaphor or piece of imagery of some sort in one of my books. Music, travel, and love are my muses. I’ve been fortunate enough to have all as constants.
Was there one certain event or happening that made you want to write a book?
I jumped on a plane with a one-way ticket to California, a couple backpacks and enough cash to last a month. I left the one person I loved the very most in life behind to explore life on my own…the toughest decision ever. Lots of pain, apprehension, and excitement. All the feelings presented themselves to me at once and so one fine summer day I sat on the floor of my Huntington Beach apartment with my keyboard in my lap and a swirl of emotion, and began creating Existing the Moments. It was really special and although it would have been more comfortable had I owned a desk, I wouldn’t change that bit of history for anything!
What do you do against writer’s block?
I try not to allow myself to get the universal writer’s block. Basically, if I’m stuck on a part in one novel, I’ll write some music reviews or articles, or maybe even work on a different novel. I always have lots of projects going at the same time. If I’m really in a bad way and there’s nothing coming to mind, I’ll go play guitar for hours and take my frustration out on a ’Dead tune.
Do you use an outline when writing? Do you stay linear or do you skip in time?
No outlines! My mind doesn’t seem to vibe off outlines. They’re too contrived and I’m more of a free-spirited writer.
I skip in time, telling events through flashbacks and connecting the past with the present continually. Linear, again, is too straightforward for me.
How difficult was it to get an agent?
I work without an agent.
How important is a good website and do you utilize blogging?
Having a decent website for people to navigate easily around is definitely important because it promotes you and your work and gives insight as to who you are as an author or person. I blog on Myspace mainly and then I have a music review blog where I review bands, shows, and albums in my spare time.
What do you prefer and why: Mass-market paperback or hard cover for your debut novel?
Paperbacks are more affordable and reasonable for most people to purchase. It’s all the same content, so I suppose I’m all about the mass-market paperbacks.
What are the most difficult and rewarding aspects of being a published writer?
The rewarding aspect is the sense of accomplishment. Seeing my book for the first time was this emotional culmination to a very long and exhausting few years. I cried! Then, when friends and family started calling and signing my guestbook and giving me words of encouragement, I was pleasantly dumbfounded and enlightened by the level of support.
The most difficult part is not being able to fully relish in the publishing of my first book without being distracted by future endeavors. At this time I’m working on my second and third novels, going through the process all over again with this sort of awareness or idea that they have to be better than the first. That’s a little tough, the self-expectations and all, but hopefully positive in the end.
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